There have been too many moments between Callen and Hetty to mention them all here in this post, however, we have collated our favourites for you to reminisce over. Each and every one of the moments are integral to the overarching story of Hetty’s efforts over the years in ensuring Callen was looked after. At first we were hidden from the secret Hetty had kept close to her chest, until she abandoned everything to keep him safe from an unknown enemy; a Romanian Crime family, the Comescus. A blood feud between the Comescus and Callens, had been going on since his grandfather killed some Comescus back in World War two. It was the reason Callen found himself alone and in the Foster Care system.
But then snippets have been revealed about where Hetty’s best interests lie with her Team Leader, G Callen.
Her words of wisdom to get him to trust his partner and the rest of the team:
HETTY: You see what happens when you pull away from your team? [She speaks to Callen who stares at the others]
CALLEN: My team? I didn’t hire Deeks, or any of them, for that matter.
HETTY: No. If I left the hiring up to you, you’d be the only person working here.
CALLEN: Are you saying that I don’t play well with others, Hetty?
HETTY: I’m suggesting that your default is to go it alone when you may be needing them most. I like to think that I impart a certain wisdom and skill set to those who pass through these doors. The one wish I have for you, Mr. Callen, is that, by the time you leave here, you’ve learned the art of trusting others. In your personal life as well as at work.
(S2E15 ‘Tin Soldiers’)
From the first instance of seeing these two characters together, you knew there was a special relationship between them:
There have been some very entertaining moments along the way between the Operations Manager and Team Leader.
The rock wall challenge:
HETTY: Redo them.
CALLEN: I’ll race you for it. [He points at the climbing wall]
HETTY: You think you can win? Just because you’re…
CALLEN: I didn’t say that.
HETTY: Just because I’m…
CALLEN: I didn’t say that either.
HETTY: All right, let’s do it. Come on, top of the wall.
CALLEN: Top of the wall!
HETTY: I have to, uh, warn you…that if you indulge in this sort of frivolity and brinkmanship, and I win, I’m going to expect these tomorrow.
CALLEN : Deal.
HETTY: I also need to tell you that I’ve had years of practice.
CALLEN: You don’t scare me. Well, maybe a little bit.
HETTY: I seem to recall a certain Sherpa saying exactly that just before I beat him to the Everest summit… with a broken arm.
CALLEN: You expect me to believe that? [She stares nastily at him]: Okay, see, now you’re bluffing.
(S2E12 ‘Overwatch’)
The Life like pose threat:
[Callen and Hetty meet at the cemetery. Hetty reveals to him that when her time comes to die, she doesn’t wish for a ceremony, memorial or flowers on her grave.]
Callen: Don’t worry. There’ll be none of that.
Hetty: Good.
Callen: From what I hear, Granger is going to have you stuffed in a life like pose for his office.
Hetty: Don’t be cheeky! Though I wouldn’t put it past him.
(S4E02 ‘Recruit’)
And the small moments of humour Hetty adds in to lighten the moment:
There have been many moments when Callen has run after Hetty to ensure she remains safe. One we remember clearly, was when Hetty left the office to secretly meet up with Detective Deeks in Human Traffic:
HETTY: Mr. Callen? I don’t take kindly to being tailed.
CALLEN: Well, I’m more of a wingman than a tail man.
HETTY: How did you know?
CALLEN: Well, before the call, it was, “Find Deeks.” After the call, it was, “Find Lazik.”
HETTY: Careless of me.
CALLEN: Now, we need to find Lazik before he finds Deeks.
CALLEN: “Quagmire”.
HETTY: [“Triple score, I win”]. Goody.
(S2E02 ‘Human Traffic’)
But we can’t complete moments with Hetty, without mentioning the heartfelt and emotional roller coaster moments for G Callen:
Like the epiphyte, her agent is resilient, independent;
Thrives in the shaded canopy of the city.
A youth without the benefit of nurturing and affection;
His survival is dependent on no other.
And like the epiphyte, often weathering the storms without roots;
Callen has had nothing, no one, to call his own.
But her wish for this dear friend, is that someday he’d learn how to trust;
At last, ending his search, for he’s already home.
And then, of course, there’s the scenes when Hetty tells him all she knows (supposedly) about his mother… very touching Hetty moment.
We cannot forget the many other moments already mentioned in other posts already published in Callen’s Corner; in particular the tea and clothing posts, that cement the special relationship this woman has with the blue eyed agent.
What has been your favourite Callen and Hetty moment so far on NCIS Los Angeles? Have we mentioned it here? If not, we’d love to hear about it and how it has touched your heart, or caused a chuckle or two from you.
Thanks to an awesome team here on Callen’s Corner for their help on this post: ChrisDaisy , Bee, Mary, B, Richtsje and sindee our editor.
callen confronting hetty in raven and swans and the end of that episode!!!
there are a lot to choose from
the episode n reznikov was also really good
hmmm… too many great scenes to mention! From what I can remember off the top of my head, I love the epiphyte scene, the scenes where she told him about Clara and the feud, and the end scene of raven and the swans.
She has been such a stabilizing force in his life, that on several occasions, Callen has been in denial that she will be gone someday. Can’t quote the exact moments throughout the series, but it makes me a bit sad each time his character is challenged on her invincibility.
(Where did this thought come from??? No idea.)
My favourite moments for Callen and Hetty have always been personal ones. They have been funny and serious, but they have been private. Their affection for each other has always been evident, even when they quarrel. The scene that I like best so far was the one you have already talked about. Callen tells her that she would have been an excellent mother, and she responds that she would like to think that she has been. It is what this show is all about on a certain level ” family “. Both she and Callen have found their families here at NCIS, and maybe that will be all that they have in the long run. At least we know that they have each other.
I love the funny moments between Callen and Hetty, such as when the team arrive into work and find assigned desks. Callen starts to say Hetty, but the expression on his face as he realises Hetty has crept up behind him is priceless. And the cemetery moment when Callen adds in about Granger is planning on stuffing her in a life like pose for his office.
But I really love the Mother and son moments (which we all have to agree that is what they are, seeing neither have family). Hy heart went out to Callen when Hetty disappeared and went to rescue her in Romania. Then afterwards, back in Los Angeles, when Callen visits Hetty at home and demands what’s in the envelope. And finally when Hetty reveals to him that she knew her Mother, Clara. They are all heart felt moments that just make you feel like giving Callen a comfort hug.
My personal favorites are the more personal ones, the ones that show how much they care for each other. Especially the scene with the epiphyte or the one where Hetty tells Callen that she wishes for him he would learn to trust. Or when she made him buy the house to give him a place to settle down. Or when she tells him how valuable damaged goods are in “Search and Destroy”.
G’s affection for Hetty is also shown in “Endgame” when he asks Vaziri for Hetty’s saftey in return to giving him the requested information. I know that this was all a set-up but it was a dangerous one and Callen would have done exactly the same for Hetty had it been a real situation.
I like the relationship the two have and I believe that Hetty truly cares for Callen (despite the ongoing “quarrel” I believe that Callen is Hetty’s favorite – sorry Deeks…) but I still can’t help wondering if Hetty knows more about Callen’s past and if so, why she doesn’t tell him. But I guess time will tell…
Thanks for reminding us of some wonderful Hetty / Callen moments, Vicki!